and He answered in the way that He knew would penetrate my heart the most.
Yep, she had written about her sisters and about her big family and about how much she loved us – all of us and there was my answer.
Not the answers we had hoped for that day but the answer that really mattered.
Love, just love, unconditional and totally accepting.
I saw it in the face of our Emmeline that day on the beach.
You all remember those pics right?
Those beautiful pictures of Em realizing that her sister, Lucy, who walks very slowly and unsteadily had been left behind…
and the joy that radiated from Em’s sweet face as she went back to get her was my answer.
It was not a burden for sweet Em, but a joy.
A moment that was not lost on me and one that I use to remind myself of the blessings that have been gifted to us.
I was reminded again today as we watched our precious Lizzie play soccer.
After watching this amazing child just tear up that soccer field, our precious Lucy insisted that she walk across that field, all by herself, so that she could give her Lizzie a hug! The look on Lizzie’s face as she watched her sweet sister struggle to get across that field and walk right into her arms was all the answer I needed!
So, yes, growing our family through adoption has indeed affected our other children. By allowing them to tap into to those precious fruits of the Spirit, they are learning (and are teaching me) that just loving unconditionally, without an “answer”…
is the best answer of all!
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
Galatians 5:22-23
His answers aren’t always what we would like them to be but they are always the best answers and trusting in that is a constant work in progress for me but what blessings come from waiting on Him and staying on that sometimes rocky path!Praising You in the good times and in the tough times Lord!
Annie H. and her husband, Chris, live in Charleston, SC along with their 7 children, Christian, Charlie, Caleb, Emmeline, Lizzie, Maggie and Lucy. After Annie and her family adopted their daughter, Lizzie, from China in 2008, Annie’s heart was forever changed and following the Lord’s call, she became an advocate for those precious children still waiting. Annie now works for Lifeline Children’s Services as their International Adoption Advocate and has loved working with the same wonderful agency who helped her to bring her daughter home in 2008 as well as their two newest daughters in August of this year. Annie manages the Lifeline advocacy site Wonderful Waiting Kids where she advocates mostly for older children and those with more significant special needs and blogs about their family and adoption at Cornbread and Chopsticks.
Yes. Yes. Yes. Loved your post. We are adopting a second sibling group right now. Our children teach me through their love for their siblings. It is beautiful and God given.
Thank you Natasha. When the Lord answers through our children it is beautiful and powerful!! Congrats on your upcoming adoption!!
Thank you very much for that post. I have one 10 years old boy and we are going to adopt a 7 years old boy in Honduras (special needs).